{"id":12513,"date":"2023-10-22T21:10:48","date_gmt":"2023-10-22T21:10:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.funminews.com\/?p=12513"},"modified":"2023-10-23T06:09:31","modified_gmt":"2023-10-23T06:09:31","slug":"12513","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/2023\/10\/22\/12513\/","title":{"rendered":"Black women don\u2019t owe you likability"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When Fani Willis, a Black woman and district attorney in Fulton County, Georgia, indicted former president Donald Trump in September, right-wing media pundits responded quickly with racist attacks. She was called a <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/rights-most-racist-attacks-fani-221100114.html\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cthug,\u201d<\/a> while former New York City mayor Rudy Giuliani referred to her as an <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.yahoo.com\/lifestyle\/rights-most-racist-attacks-fani-221100114.html\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cincompetent, sloppy prosecutor.\u201d<\/a> Despite the fact that only <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/abcnews.go.com\/US\/black-women-prosecutors-hate-misogynoir-part-life\/story?id=68961291#:~:text=Only%201.84%25%20of%20top%20prosecutors,%2C%201.34%25%20are%20black%20women.&amp;text=Marilyn%20Mosby%20is%20part%20of,prosecutors%20in%20the%20United%20States.\" target=\"_blank\">1% of top prosecutors<\/a> are Black women, casting Black women as unlikeable, aggressive, and threatening figures is a common pattern of behavior seen across sports, politics, and entertainment, historically dating back to chattel slavery. Indeed, the <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2022\/01\/the-angry-black-woman-stereotype-at-work\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cangry Black woman\u201d<\/a> is among the most enduring tropes in our culture, visible on-screen and off-screen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><div id=\"fusion-app\" class=\"fusion-app\"><section class=\"article-railless | container grid width_max_1440 margin_center\" id=\"article-railless\"><main id=\"main\" class=\"left col margin_center padding_horizontal_16\"><article id=\"article-body\" class=\"article | rail is-emancipator-body\"><div class=\"body | gutter_16--desktop gutter_16--tablet\n              \"><p class=\"paragraph | gutter_20_0 railless margin_horizontal_10 width_max_1080\"><span class=\"html-render\">Our  culture expects Black women to remain humbly in their place or risk  being called \u201cuppity\u201d or \u201cungrateful.\u201d For example, in the world of  professional sports, bravado is celebrated. The late boxer and  humanitarian Muhammad Ali famously referred to himself as \u201cthe greatest  of all time.\u201d However, Black women such as Williams and Sha\u2019Carri  Richardson, who are arguably the greatest in their fields, aren\u2019t  allowed similar bravado. Instead, they are expected to remain in their  place.This past August, Richardson became the fastest woman in the world when she ran the <a class=\"\" style=\"font-size:inherit;letter-spacing:.5px\" href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2023\/08\/22\/1195170311\/shacarri-richardson-is-officially-the-fastest-woman-in-the-world#:~:text=Sha%27Carri%20Richardson%20is%20officially,woman%20in%20the%20world%20%3A%20NPR&amp;text=Hourly%20News-,Sha%27Carri%20Richardson%20is%20officially%20the%20fastest%20woman%20in%20the,a%20time%20of%2010.65%20seconds.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">100-meter dash in 10.65 seconds<\/a> in Budapest, Hungary. She rightfully referred to herself as <a class=\"\" style=\"font-size:inherit;letter-spacing:.5px\" href=\"https:\/\/www.teenvogue.com\/story\/shacarri-richardson-profile\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cthat girl,\u201d<\/a> a woman of achievement who is deserving of respect, after winning the race at the 2020 US Olympic trials, before being <a class=\"\" style=\"font-size:inherit;letter-spacing:.5px\" href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2021\/07\/06\/1013578552\/u-s-sprinter-shacarri-richardson-will-not-compete-in-the-tokyo-olympics#:~:text=U.S.%20Sprinter%20Sha%27Carri%20Richardson%20Is%20Suspended%20After%20A%20Positive%20Marijuana%20Test\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">disqualified<\/a>  for the Tokyo Olympics for a positive drug test. Instead of focusing on  her athletic prowess, much of the sports world demonized her for past  mistakes. Adding insult to injury, Richardson was not extended an invite  to ESPN\u2019s <a class=\"\" style=\"font-size:inherit;letter-spacing:.5px\" href=\"https:\/\/www.essentiallysports.com\/us-sports-news-olympics-news-track-and-field-news-nfl-news-as-if-i-was-a-charity-case-hours-before-patrick-mahomes-win-feeling-disrespected-shacarri-richardson-brutally-calls-out-espys\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">2023 ESPYs<\/a>.  Instead, Richardson was expected to shrink herself to avoid offending  anyone, and she was asked to remain humble to remain palatable for the  masses. Despite the fact that Black women represented a mere <a class=\"\" style=\"font-size:inherit;letter-spacing:.5px\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/record-number-black-women-playing-us-open-2020-9#:~:text=According%20to%20USA%20Today%2C%20a,to%20The%20New%20York%20Times.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">9.4%<\/a>  of all women in the 2020 U.S. Open, when Black women enter fields where  they have traditionally been excluded, the status quo critiques them to  keep them out.<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/article><\/main><\/section><\/div><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition to being forced to show humility, Black women are expected to endure disrespect and hardship in their professional lives. For instance, as a Black female physician, I experience race and gender-based microaggressions daily, even though Black women represent fewer than <a href=\"https:\/\/www.massgeneral.org\/news\/press-release\/superhuman-but-never-enough-essay-details-inequities-experienced-by-black-women-physicians-in-the-united-states\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">3%<\/a> of the profession. Recently, a surgery colleague undermined my decision to intubate a critically ill patient in front of the entire team. He looked to my trainees, all men, to confirm my decision-making, because he didn\u2019t think that I looked like a doctor \u2014 or at least not one with sufficient decision-making skills. More scrutiny was placed on how I responded than the harmful actions delaying patient care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This expectation of hyper-endurance feeds the dangerous, harmful <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/local\/strong-black-women-myth\/2021\/11\/02\/d07dce20-3be9-11ec-bfad-8283439871ec_story.html\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cstrong Black woman\u201d<\/a> myth by expecting Black women to endure discrimination without validating our pain and emotions. The trope, whose initial intent was to inspire and empower Black women, contributes to the medical field ignoring our physical and emotional pain and feeds the idea that our socioeconomic and personal needs should come last in political movements. Ultimately, this myth that we are strong or magical dehumanizes us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"696\" height=\"464\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.funminews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/shekari.jpg?resize=696%2C464\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12519\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.funminews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/shekari.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.funminews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/shekari.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.funminews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/shekari.jpg?resize=696%2C464&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.funminews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/shekari.jpg?resize=630%2C420&amp;ssl=1 630w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Moreover, the expectation that Black women should endure <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/news.northwestern.edu\/stories\/2023\/05\/professor-coins-new-word-misogynoir\/\" target=\"_blank\">misogynoir<\/a>, or a hatred of and aversion to Black women, manifests itself in multiple ways. For example, when a Louisiana State University basketball champion <a class=\"\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/news\/lsu-angel-reese-you-cant-see-me-hand-gesture-caitlin-clark-womens-ncca-tournament\/\" target=\"_blank\">Angel Reese<\/a>\u2019s team won the NCAA women\u2019s basketball championship against the University of Iowa, Reese waved her hand in front of her face, implying that her skills were unmatched and no one could compete with her. Another basketball player named Caitlin Clark, a White woman, used the gesture throughout the season and was applauded for it, but as a Black woman, Reese was met with scrutiny. When Black women\u2019s very existence in predominantly White spaces is a radical act of defiance, the public demands that we endure disrespect in ways that don\u2019t upset the status quo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When gender intersects with race in the courtroom or sports field, Black women often find themselves in a precarious position. Despite our accomplishments, humility is expected and demanded, alongside composure in the face of unchecked racialized harassment. For example, a recent study in <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2022\/01\/the-angry-black-woman-stereotype-at-work\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Harvard Business Review<\/a> showed that participants are more likely to attribute the anger of Black female employees to personality than external factors, causing Black women harm in the workplace. Additionally, parents and educators need to stop socializing girls to be nice and well-behaved while boys are allowed to be boisterous and assertive. These factors contribute to Black girls being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.law.columbia.edu\/news\/archive\/girls-color-face-disproportionately-harsh-discipline-school#:~:text=According%20to%20the%20most%20recent,as%20often%20as%20white%20boys.\" class=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">six times<\/a> more likely to be suspended than White girls for similar offenses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Black women do not owe society likability, humility, or superhuman strength. We are owed the same compassion, support, and humanity extended to our peers. It is our collective responsibility to address the impact of harmful stereotypes of Black women, and question their relevance in our culture, media, and sports fields. Doing so will not only reveal their sinister cause, but give Black women much-needed complexity in our identities and grace in our humanity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Fani Willis, a Black woman and district attorney in Fulton County, Georgia, indicted former president Donald Trump in September, right-wing media pundits responded quickly with racist attacks. She was called a \u201cthug,\u201d while former New York City mayor Rudy Giuliani referred to her as an \u201cincompetent, sloppy prosecutor.\u201d Despite the fact that only 1% [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":12516,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4,5,18,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12513","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-featured","category-international","category-lifestyle","category-sports"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.funminews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Serena-Stern.jpg?fit=720%2C497&ssl=1","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12513","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12513"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12513\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12521,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12513\/revisions\/12521"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12516"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12513"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12513"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.funminews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12513"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}