Parricide, the killing of a parent, is rare. But the recent deaths of Hollywood director Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele, have drawn attention to the fears many families face when a loved one struggles with addiction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For parents of children with substance use disorders, the case is not just a headline. It reflects the chaos and unpredictability that often define their daily lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Marilynn Ulrich of Connecticut said she feared for her safety because of her son\u2019s addiction. After hearing of the Reiners\u2019 deaths, she posted in a Facebook group for parents of children with addiction issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI don\u2019t know what my addicted son is capable of,\u201d Ulrich wrote. Her post drew dozens of comments from parents who said they shared the same concern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ulrich said she does not see her son regularly because he lives in California. Over the years, she has tried to get him help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ron Grover of Lake of the Ozarks, Missouri, said his son\u2019s drug abuse consumed the entire family\u2019s life for years. \u201cThis is not a disease that affects just one person. It\u2019s a family disease,\u201d Grover said. His son is now sober.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Federal data show more than 48.4 million Americans have a substance use disorder. Millions of family members are affected as they try to find ways to help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Addiction cuts across race, class and geography. Families in suburbs, cities and rural areas all face the same challenges. Stigma often keeps them from speaking openly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Parents often describe a painful duality: they love their children but fear the consequences of their addiction. Many try rehab, therapy and interventions, but feel powerless when relapse occurs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While parricide remains rare, the fear and disruption caused by addiction are widespread. Families say the Reiner case underscores the need for compassion, destigmatization and stronger support networks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAs a mother, you\u2019re looking for answers, because you want to solve this problem. It\u2019s hard to just say there\u2019s no answers and I can\u2019t solve it as a mother,\u201d Ulrich said. \u201cIt never leaves your mind. It\u2019s always hovering, and you\u2019re wondering if you\u2019re going to get a phone call about some calamity.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Having also worked in rehab, she says she knows treatment can help, but \u201cyou can\u2019t force your kid to get well.\u201d And sometimes, multiple trips to rehab are needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unlike other diseases where a treatment can reliably keep someone stable, it\u2019s difficult to know what will work with drug addiction. There are a variety of approaches and no simple one\u2011size\u2011fits\u2011all solutions, said Dr. Kimberly Kirby, a professor of psychology at Rowan University in New Jersey. \u201cAnd the things the family goes through, it\u2019s just heartbreak. It\u2019s not just the heartbreak of seeing a child in trouble but laying out thousands of dollars, depleting retirement funds trying to save their child.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There certainly have been successes with treatments and family interventions, she said, but not everyone reaches a happy ending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cI don\u2019t give up.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Audrey Bonafe, who lives just south of Richmond, Virginia, says her son Foster is clean now, but it was a long and harrowing journey to sobriety. She\u2019ll never forget the night when he turned up at her house with a gun, she says, and was high on something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bonafe says she held on through fear and uncertainty, and today her son is working and sober. For her, the Reiner case is a reminder of how fragile recovery can be, but also how vital it is for families to keep fighting.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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