Veteran Nollywood actor and cultural icon Dele Odule has once again ignited a heated debate in Nigeria with his bold defense of polygamy, declaring that foreign values will never extinguish the African tradition of men having multiple wives. Speaking during an interview about the changing social dynamics among Nigerian youth, Odule, renowned for his towering influence in Yoruba cinema, argued that the growing Westernization of society has had little impact on deeply rooted cultural practices such as polygamy, which he says is woven into the fabric of African life.
Odule poured scorn on young Nigerians who he says “look down” on traditional lifestyles and try to reinvent African identity by importing foreign attitudes. “Western culture is not ours; it cannot erase what we are,” he explained. “Polygamy has been our way long before social media or western values infiltrated our minds. It’s not about wealth or materials — it’s about honouring our heritage.” He argued that this tradition, once commonplace and universally accepted, remains relevant because it reflects the social and spiritual values of many communities.
The veteran thespian, who celebrated decades in the industry this year, said his own life is a testament to the ongoing tension between traditional practice and modern ideals. Though he admitted to having children with multiple women, Odule clarified that these decisions were made in his youth, and his central focus remains supporting and guiding his family.
Odule’s remarks aligned with the cultural context in which many Nigerians operate. Despite civil marriage laws recognizing only monogamy, numerous communities across the country, especially in the north and among certain traditional institutions, continue to practice polygamy under customary and Islamic law, where it is still socially sanctioned and legally recognized in some states.
Historically, African societies have defined masculinity, responsibility, and power by a man’s ability to sustain multiple wives and large families — a status symbol still visible in the legacies of past rulers and leaders who were polygamists. Odule cited examples across generations, including political families and royal households, to underscore that despite colonial and Western influence, polygamy remains intact.
Speaking candidly about the backlash he often faces, Odule said critics misunderstand his message. “This is not about arrogance or defiance,” he said. “We’re not against others’ values, but we will not surrender ours. Just as the West protects its heritage, we must protect ours too.”
Odule also addressed misconceptions that polygamy exists only among Muslim Nigerians. He emphasised that long before colonialism and modern religion reshaped social norms, a man with multiple wives was a symbol of strength, provision, and honour — a cultural reality present even in communities that today favour monogamy.
Echoing this sentiment, Odule warned cultural purists disappear at their own peril. “We must resist the erosion of our values,” he told younger generations. “If they keep saying our traditions are primitive, they are trying to erase history.”
